The birth experience I would like to write about
is my own. My daughter was born 23 years ago September and the following is why
I remember this event like it was yesterday.
My husband and I was married for over a year
when we got pregnant and we were so excited. My first 7 months of my pregnancy
went as planned. I gained the appropriate weight and exercised and watched what
I ate and everything was perfect ~ until my seventh month. My blood pressure
began skyrocketing and swelling and I was put on complete bed rest. The doctor
told me I was going to lose the baby if I did not rest and keep my feet
elevated. I had to go on long term disability and struggle through migraine
headaches. I was at the doctors 2 to 3 times a week checking to make sure toxemia
was not setting in. I then was told the baby was due on September 4, the
doctors induced me on September 5th, and I was sent home late that
evening. The doctors induced me again on September 12, and again I was sent
home after a long day of induction. Then finally on September 18th,
and l laid there all day, being induced and then the nurses began to ask if I
needed to push. I asked what they were talking about and they began to explain…..I
said that I did not and after examination the doctors determined I was only
dilated to 1 ½ cm. I needed an emergency c section. I was then rushed into the
emergency delivery room and given a vertical incision and delivered a 9 lb. 1oz
22 in baby HEALTHY girl. I had only gained 18lbs with her so I was completely
all baby.
The region of the world I chose to write about
was Niger, it is officially the most dangerous place on earth to have a baby.
It was reported that in Niger childbirth was “likely to end badly. Dahara is
the lady I read about, she was 26 years old and she being from Niger, “had a
one-in-seven chance of dying during her reproductive years as a result of a
pregnancy-related complication or infection.” The newborn in Niger has a very
great chance of not reaching their first birthday and if they pass that there
is a one in six chance that they will not make it to age 5. After birth Dahara
will only stay for a few hours and then will tie her son to her back and walk approx.
one mile to her village and will receive no after care for the baby or herself.
The father will not
likely be involved in with the child, since “in Niger, birth is considered to
be women's work and fathers keep their distance.”
Berger (2012) states that “in the poorest nations, almost all
babies are born at home; Doctors are called only for emergencies. This is why I
chose to write about someone who had her child in a hospital yet the survival rate
for this child was still very slim.
References
Berger, K. S. (2012). The developing person through childhood (6th ed.). Chapter 1, “Children
and Childhoods”, New York, NY: Worth Publishers. http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2006/oct/03/healthandwellbeing.health
Berger, K. S. (2012). The developing person through childhood (6th ed.). Chapter 1, “Children
and Childhoods”, New York, NY: Worth Publishers. http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2006/oct/03/healthandwellbeing.health
Wow! I can only imagine what you went through! I'm really all hands down for brave moms like you. With regard to Nigerian births, I think that’s really interesting. I’ve never really heard about that before, so thank you so much for sharing that information :)
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